Yep, I hate it too. (Small Rant)

The Facebook update that is. I don’t care what they think is interesting. I like reading everything in order. They’re just complicating things. And so, I’ve started setting up my google+.

I also hate fighting with my husband. Most of it has been him being mean to my cat. She likes to come in and cuddle with me in the mornings and he’s constantly pushing her off the bed. She doesn’t even bug him, but if he opens his eyes to roll over and sees her, he pushes her. Sometimes I’m faster and I scoop her up into my arms so that he can’t. I’m just tired of it. I like cuddling with her in the morning, and he needs to leave her alone!

He also hasn’t been helping around our home. He’s constantly whining about having to do chores. We’re not 15. They’re not chores. We are adults. They are responsibilities. They are simply things that need to be done. The dishes cannot sit in the sink for a week. The trash needs to be taken out when it is full. We have a cat. We should vacuum once a week. Neither of us like a dirty home, but it shouldn’t all be up to me to get it all done or decide when I’ve had enough of him not helping. He needs to do things on his own too. Why is it so hard?

I’m also tired of making every decision. I decide what’s for dinner no matter who cooks. I decide if we’re going to go out and do something. I decide when he should clean. I decide when the mail gets checked. I decide when and what bills get paid. I decide, I decide, I decide. I’m sick of it! I want to be taken care of once in a while. He says he wants to do whatever I want to do to make me happy. It would make me happy if he would just be a man and make a damn decision!